Lahat ng nangyayari sa buhay natin ay outcome ng mga bagay na pinipili natin. Everything is a matter of choice 'ika nga. Choice mo mamili sa mangyayari sa buhay mo, sa mga taong makakasama mo sa buhay at mga bagay na gusto mo mangyari. Kasama ng matter of choice ang matter of chance. Ang chance ang nagbibigay sa atin ng option kung kukunin ba natin ang pagkakataon na ibininibigay ng panahon na naaangkop sa sitwasyon natin. We have the option to take the chance or pakawalan nalang natin, it's really all up to us. It's really hard to choose to all of the options that life has to offer. It can makes us a better person or break us to try again.
Sa buhay ko, napakaraming chances at choices na napalagpas ko, however, I can't afford to regret anything because of the lesson and the wisdom I have learned. Sabi sa akin ng Mommy ko, I should not dwell on the past, kasi tapos na yun. Wala na akong dapat pagsisihan sa mga choices ko kasi hindi na maibabalik ang mga chances na nakalipas. I maybe not as successful as I have dreamt to be when I was younger, I maybe not in the place where I should to be and I maybe not with the person I really wanted and loved deeply, but I am happy of where, what and whom I am with now. Though madaming "what might have been" at maraming what if's ang laging nagtatanong sa akin. What my life could have been, my lifestyle, my work environment, my friends and most specially my marriage, if I have took all the chances and if I have chose the alternate route that life has offered me, would I be the same person I am now? What could have done differently? But honestly, I never wanted to go back, I don't want to change even a single event that happened in the past. It's all done.Past is past, we can never undo or change it but instead we need to accept the consequences and learn from all the possibilities that can be done.
Lagi natin iisipin na lahat dito sa mundo ay may rason at na sa'yo ang choice kung ano ang dapat mong gawin. Wala kang dapat sisihin o dapat isipin kung 'di un choice mo para maging masaya. You are responsible on your own happiness, choose what makes you happy. Masaya ang mundo, tanging ikaw lang ang pipili para sa ikakasaya mo at ikaw din ang pipili ng mga taong makakasama mo sa mga chances na darating sa buhay mo. You need to choose the people that will help you to get through in life through thick and thin. Ikaw ang pipili ng mga taong makakasama mo for the rest of your journey in life. For now, all we need to do is to enjoy what we choose and love the chances we take.
